Thursday, May 13, 2010
Long Distance
Long Distance relations has become as common as the grass is green. All relationships are hard not easy to maintain and require work, prayer, among alot extra. Trust and communication are a big key, but what do you do when the heart becomes loney and the bed becomes cold? Do you throw what you have worked for with your mate away or do you work harder? Compromise is often key and cannot be one sided what if your are the only one traveling to see the other? What if there is always and excuse for their non visits or ther missing moments? Just want to know how you all feel when is enough enough? When do you feel its a good time to walk away from a situation as such? How do you feel about a long distance relationship is it lost time or worth the effort?
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Well boo, long distance relationships aren't for everyone. But speaking from experience, they can turn out to be worthwhile. When you take on a long distance relationship, little do people know that you are also signing up for the emotional roller coaster. There will be times when the loneliness seems unbearable, but just know that in the midnight hour when you're lonely & no one is there to hold you, GOD CAN! All you can do when your mind wants to go haywire and you feel as though you will drown in your loneliness is pray. This is not the time to break out the pen and make note of the missed phone calls, the missed visits, etc. If your long distance relationship is going to stand a chance, there has to be Trust, b/c without it the relationship is basically dead. Since you don't have the comfort of seeing that special someone each and everyday, you have to have a peace of mind that both of you are holding each other down. Don't get mad when you are having a "moment" and you just want to talk and he doesn't pick up the phone. It's going to be okay. Once you have made up your mind to take on a long distance relationship, you have to stayed committed to one another. B/c there will be other people that want to voice their opinion, but don't other people block your blessings. And when everything is said and done, and your prince turns out to have been a toad, write it off as a lesson learned and keep it moving. Don't let it hinder you from taking that leap of faith again. Love is worth fighting for. The thing is, are your fully armed?
ReplyDelete~Yours Truly, Celeste~
communication is key.............love you!!!!!
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ReplyDeleteU are one hundred percent with your comment and believe me from experience it is an emotional roller coaster and often the love is worth fighting for, but what if your the onyl one fighting for this love what if you are the only one sacraficing? At that point it time to let go! Long Distance relationship may work for some and not all thank you so much Mz. C for your insight and I know your will and strength thru your long distyance relationship has brought you a blessed happiness
District Chic yes communication is key and the worst of it all is that even though bout parties know this one party often forgets to communicate..or doesnt know how to communicate at all patience is of the essence but when the communication and status of your love is going no where then the long distance in your relationship has to lessened or the relation ended..No need in hurting!
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